An article by Faron Poser, Why love hurts so much .

Everyone has had there heart broken a time or two and anyone who denies it is blatantly lying to your face. Love isn't easy and maybe that's why people crave it so much. Some people will tell you that it's not the love that hurts but, rather the loss of love. It may seem this way but, when we really think about it there would never be pain of lost love if there was no love to begin with.

Loosing love is without a doubt one of the most emotionally painful things a person can survive. After all, we aren't just talking about romantic love. We are talking about love of all kinds; love between friends, family, teachers, and anyone we may find ourselves emotionally attached to. Love is 90% of who we are, it's what gives us hope and keeps us alive.
How do you know that you've found love of any kind? You know when you've exposed yourself, made yourself vulnerable by letting yourself become dependent. You are probably wondering why I used a word as strong as, "dependent" but, the truth is that's what we become when we find ourselves emotionally attached. Trusting in a person is dependence, it's dependence upon that person for support and mercy when we fall down.
The truth is though people are always going to let us down and they will always fall short of our expectations in one way or another. We need to rise above and help them back up on there feet. We need to let them know that it's okay that they aren't perfect; after all, it is our nature to make mistakes that is what makes us human in every way. There will never be a time though when love doesn't hurt us or make us feel as though we can't get up but, you have to keep getting up. Take the time you need to heal and forgive then get back out in the game because, that is where you belong. Love will always find you and believe it or not eventually the right kind of love you seek will land in you hands. It's up to you though to hold on to it and treat it right.
Love is always going to be apart of your life and so it is safe to say some pain will follow; but, at the end of the day all that really matters is that all the tears you shed and gallons of ice cream you inhale are worth it.

Okay, today officially hari untuk disakiti dan menyakitkan buat saya, dellany may. People can be so rude and bitchy and yes, MEMANG TAK AH AKU NAK GIVE FACE KAY! KAU INGAT KAU HEBAT LAH? PFFFFTTTTTT SCREW U. Is there such thing as a man bitch? Well if there is, then you're one. Hahahaha. There's one night, yang tak seberapa magical lah but i felt like " Sweet mother of strawberries!!! ". It felt so good, i cant explain the satisfaction after the " Hard" work. Hahahaha dont fikir bukan2 la babe, ni bukan 18sx ok ladies n gents, its just that ive been ignoring my assignments and all, i already feel guilty about it pon. SO i decided to do part of it, and im glad im done. Another 2 more paintings. and now i think 3 ! with 40 sketches left? Shit. I am screwed. I have to buck up remember!! Yikes. Talking about life, life seems pretty steady for me now. Im loving it, and i think im starting to like this que serra serra way of life more :D Next friday the girls plan to go clubbing someplace, i wonder where, and i pray this time its all R&B no more house music please, unless im gonna be drunk as hell, then anyyyyy other music can shake that bootyfooled soul of mine. I feel like gettin ma drink on ;) huhuhu.

Pet society, my pet's name is wonwon. Comel kan ? hihhiihi. But lama tak main and i hope dia tak mampousss. Hahaha. I wanna watch g.i. joe!! Sapa nak tengok dengan i? CALL ME. Ummm, ok i baru graduated from my college, diploma in multimedia ( business computing ) And now i amek apa ? Graphic design. WHAHAHHAHHAHAHAAHH. Lari jugak la field i ni. But so what, i will take business something2 as my major later later. Can ke ? Hhahha. Ntah . I think i wanna venture in advertising but that all depends, long way to go babe.

Someone asked me a stupid question semalam, but seriously, you are wayyyy over your head when u asked me that. I mean, you had the guts to do so? What the fuck right. You and i know we both had issues before, wasnt pleasing because it kept us apart for like almost half a year? Like we were so close and tight before and now? Now nak kata tight takde la tight, but still we used to be isi dan kuku and i dont know, i dont think i want to take that risk, plus i think i know you too well to take it to the next level. Biar je la k? Let it be and let it go. Its better for us to be that way, and im glad we are. This way.

Next, i dont know whyy i had the urge to do another stupid thing pagi buta. I felt the adrenaline rush,rushing through my veins pumping my blood so hard and HELLL YEAAAAAA. And it is disturbing. The song to describe the feeling is : Usher -make love in this club, T-pain - Bartender, Snoop Dog - Sexual eruption and last but not least Boyz II men - i'll make love to you . Wengggg pagi2 buta kenape?? Takboleh bla. Yes i hurt myself during a few attempts on a wild experiment. A very wild one indeed. Menyesal aku. Oh and my nails are turqoise in colourr! Hihihi. Daring colour, but who gives a shit, kuku aku, suke aku la!

Jengjengjengjengggg, there's a mysterious thing thats going on down my house. My neighbour loves to water his plants in the middle of the night wei, like 12- 2 am you can see him watering his plants. he is a solo old man. Not that old, cam mid life crisis kinda old. Hahah. Dah la dia kantoikan my cousin smoking and all HEISH. Kechow r. Anyway, i am hungry and mummy tak masak. Someone take me out for dinner :( Hmm ok lah then. I wanna sleeeeep :D Goodnight world and so longgg bloggy. I will upload pics from worldstage tomorrow if i go lah :S Hhehehe. PLEASE LA MUMMY KASI KETE.

Amen. >.<>

lotsa love and kisssses,

Dellnnneyhh Mayyyhh

I am havin a blast yang tk tak blast langsung. Seriously. Sakit perut and this weird feeling of cemas most of the time for no apparent reason. Its annoying. What should i do! I wanna go worldstage dengan myra and iqa and ? Haaaaaah. Duno. Anyway, i think i should get myself together. And hopefully i get the car saturday!!! WORLDSTAGE! Hehehe. Muahmuah ladies and gents. lotsa love, me.

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Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but fondness makes the heart grow absent .

I liked this post zam (mhz jml) ! Thanks for posting it ! ;) Pinjam post !

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?'

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?' In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's
Weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer..

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and Liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept of my feet.' Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. AndTEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression 'the labor of love.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make' love.

Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:
'Allah determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

moral : appreciate what u have..

** ni hak milik terpelihara zam, i cliloked it, :D lovve it wei, sweet ja !